"How to Seduce a Girl - My name is Nicole and I'd like to thank this site personally for helping me stumble across the man of my dreams! It all began about 6 months ago. I'd been using the dating site for about 2 months when I got an e-mail from another member. He mentioned that I popped up on his list that was e-mailed to him. I recognized his name as someone that had obviously been on my list as well, but seeing as though I wasn't a paying member, I wasn't able to contact other members. Our first date was on Friday the 13th (August 04) and we chose to do dinner and a movie. Friday the 13th and we saw Alien vs Predator...how romantic, right? Well, he was just being himself and so was I and guess what. IT WORKED! I was seduced instantly. The conversation was awesome. I'd been on a few blind dates already through AFF, but had never been this pleasantly surprised by our compatibility. As the night progressed, I started to worry a bit because he didn't seem to be warming up to me. Any other guy would have been putting his arm around me, holding my hand, etc etc. but not him. I took it as mixed signals, and by the end of the night, after having to practically beg for a goodnight hug, I figured that I had been mistaken by our compatibility (or maybe it was only one-sided?). I went home and shared the story with roommates explaining that it had been a waste of my time and money. Looking back now, boy was I wrong!! A couple of days later, he contacted me again, and I straight out asked him if he was interested because of the mixed signals he had given me on the date. He apologized profusely and blamed it on his shyness and nervousness. He explained to me that he was VERY interested...and asked if he could come visit again...which I happily agreed to. A month later, we moved in together. Easy huh? - Nicole"